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Oct 3, 2022Liked by Jim Ruland

A friend told me that she gets so relaxed at the dentist that she falls asleep, and I can't imagine the feeling. Your description of thinking about your tounge really resonated with me.

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I just had a tattoo appointment that was positively relaxing compared to my recent dental adventures!

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I know about the pain you are feeling and I know about leaping over plot holes. I didn’t know you could make such a beautiful piece of writing about each. Here’s to life after the stitches come out!

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Thanks, Betsy!

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Sep 28, 2022Liked by Jim Ruland

Oh, I love this piece so much, such beautiful writing! As someone who has spent way too much time (and money) in dental chairs (implant, crowns), I can completely relate to everything you went through. Next time I go to the dentist I'm bringing a book to hold on to for comfort. And I'll meet you at that coffeehouse--the espresso is on me.

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Thank you, Angie! Maybe imaginary coffeehouses are my safe space and happy place?

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Glad the tooth survived and also how long are you on the liquid diet?

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Hopefully after the stitches come out tomorrow!

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Sounds like a coffee shop I know in Flagstaff

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And which one would that be?

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I have a few favorites, but Macy's is the most like what you're describing

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It is but the weird thing is I can't for the life of me recall what it looks or feels like. All I remember are the vibes.

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Love how you weave so much together. Look forward to reading your book. I did feel a bit like Vern in Stand By Me at the end though. Got fixated on a minor detail. Wanted to know what book you were holding.

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Ha, thanks, Travis! The book was The Cult in My Garage by Duncan Birmingham. Pretty good so far!

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